I never knew why people went into relationships or what we call dating now. I never understood why someone would put themselves into that spot of drama. I always asked why do people say "I love him/her so much. I don't know how I would be w/o her/him" as a 14 year old or younger. I found it ridiculous how my classmates would act like their world was going to end w/o a certain someone. I didn't understand it at all. I never said anything though, even though I really wanted to shake them and tell them, "um you're 14 years old, I don't think you guys are going to get married, STOP crying, you have other things to worry about in life." Of course I went through crushing, liking someone, drama, but when a question was asked "Would you go out with me?", it was always a no. For other people it was an easy yes, which I also didn't get. Maybe I was scared of commitment, but how come no one else seem to see what I saw?
I know that people just want to be loved. They want to be assured that if someone loves them, they would go out. It seems like "Going out" was a permission to hold hands and kiss. Hey, I might be wrong but that's how I perceive it. I learned that everyone loves that feeling of someone being there for them, those dang butterflies. That was what I was missing. I still don't like dating, but I sure miss the feeling of someone being there for you. I love being single, it's fun, great, FREE, but those butterflies could come once and a while.
Love is not a feeling or emotion. If you truly love someone you would do the highest good for that person.
You should read, "Don't take love lying down." by Brad Henning. I haven't read it yet but I read sections of it. It's quite good and he's super funny.
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